Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Annie Ilot with the following comment:
John Ilott is my G-G-G-Grandfather, born in 1852 in Woolstone, Berks. Annie Ilott (nee Dabney) may/may not be my G-G-G-Grandmother. Rumours they were both 13 at the time my G-G-Grandfather Edward Ilott was born illegitimately.